Showing posts with label Dining Room. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dining Room. Show all posts

08 December 2025

Best Way to Remove White Heat Marks from Wood (Even Old Ones)

Image from Better Homes & Gardens
Have you ever set something hot (or even just warm) down on a wood table, and then discovered that it left a white mark behind that wouldn't wipe off? Welcome to the club. These marks are caused by the heat causing moisture to be trapped in the wood, and they can ruin the look of a table. Luckily they can be fixed.

My sister inherited our parents' dining room table, and over the years it ended up covered in these stains (I'm kicking myself for not taking photos, but I didn't think about posting about it until it was too late). After I accidentally contributed a new mark, I decided to see if I could fix it.

Four solutions are consistently suggested:

1. A hair dryer

2. Toothpaste and baking soda

3. Petroleum jelly

4. An iron and a towel

It turns out my sister doesn't have an iron, so that option was out. For the toothpaste you need a plain white, non-gel kind, and we didn't have any on hand (which is fine because I don't trust this option anyway). We did try petroleum jelly, putting a generous coating on one of the spots and leaving it overnight, before wiping it off. It did nothing.

Photo by Andrea Donato on Unsplash
 But the hair dryer was a winner!

The instructions say to start on low heat, keep the dryer a few inches away, and gradually turn the heat up. This helped, but it took forever. So, my sister set the heat to high and moved it as close to the spot as possible without touching it. Within minutes, all the marks were gone, including ones that had been there for over a decade. The table looks amazing now.

If you're going to use high heat up close, please test it somewhere less noticeable first. We might've just been lucky that it didn't scorch the finish. The more cautious approach also works--you'll just need a lot of patience.

Have you had luck with any other methods? Share your experiences in the comments. And if you need a break from household chores, download my books (links follow)!

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Cheers,

Aspasia

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29 April 2013

Sew What: Tablecloth

I finally finished my latest sewing project: a tablecloth. It was more work than it should have been because the fabric wasn't wide enough, so I had to piece it together in a somewhat awkward way. I guess that's what I get for ordering fabric online instead of braving the fabric store. Better skills at measurement conversion might help too. But I've realized I really enjoy sewing (crafting in general, actually), and overall I'm happy with how it turned out and how it looks. I particularly love the print. Yay for fun projects and pretty results :)



Next project: bunting! 

Photos by Whimsy Bower

02 April 2013

We've Got a Runner: Sewing Project


I just finished my latest sewing project: a table runner. I'm pretty happy with the results...

 
At each end I interspersed a strip of solid red fabric between pieces of the striped fabric.











I learned how to make tassels! (Thank you, Martha.) I used Starbella super bulky yarn I found at Michaels and some matching DMC embroidery thread.


I'm thinking of making some matching napkins or place mats with the leftover fabric.


Photos by Whimsy Bower

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13 January 2012

Stitches that Bind

In my trays post I mentioned that I also brought home two framed needlepoints that my mom had told me she wanted me to have. So I thought I'd share :) But before we get to those I have to show you my prized possession (above and below)...

This is an embroidered piece that my mom made when she was about 11 or 12. When she went back to her childhood home (for the first time after 30-ish years!) in the late 80s she found it again and brought it back and had it framed. I loved it from the beginning: the colours, the design, the workmanship. How thrilled was I when she gave it to me when I moved into my first house! If there's ever a fire I'd grab my cats, my computer, and this. If I had to I'd leave the computer behind.

Swallows are common in Greece (at least around Sparta) and they nest under any overhangs they can find. My great aunt has them on her porch under the grapevine arbour. My dad had them inside his childhood home in the rafters (times were rough back then)! Everyone seems to like them, though--I've never heard anyone complain (I think they're considered good luck). I'm a big fan myself so I'm extra glad that they're the subject of this work.

My mom had what are called "blessed hands." She could look at a picture of a dress and recreate it (when she was sewing professionally most of her customers would bring her a photo instead of a pattern). Or if she had a swatch of a crochet design she could figure it out and turn it into a finished piece. I know she didn't have any kind of pattern when she made this needlepoint--and look at how fine the stitches are. If I had a tenth of her skills and talents I would feel blessed myself.


Speaking of the trays post, I forgot to mention another tray I found that day. This one has an embroidered piece framed inside it. My mom did the embroidery but I don't know who framed it or chose to put it in a tray (great idea, though). I could use it for more practical purposes but the back is on the fragile side so I decided to hang it in my kitchen instead.

Again, I marvel at the workmanship...

This next piece is one that was always hanging in our house ever since I can remember. I always liked it and I'm so glad my mom gave it to me. It's weird to see it in my house now, though. Takes me right back to childhood...

The frame isn't my usual style but I hung it over the piano (in the dining room) and it actually looks perfect. The wood blends nicely with all the other wood in the room; the colours work well; and the theme is most suitable. I tried to get a photo including the piano but despite taking about a thousand pictures I only ended up with a couple that looked remotely decent. The photography gods were not with me that day...

I'm really sorry for the glare but I wanted to show the picture and the stitches a little closer. Non-reflective glass, my ass. Anyway this style of embroidery is (I believe) called half-stitch (in Greek, which is how I know it, it's called kedima). You work it on a pre-printed pattern. That sounds dull but it's very soothing work and allows for plenty of creativity with the colours. I was taught it when I was 4 or 5 but that's for another post...

This last piece wasn't made by my mom but it was given to her as a gift (I wish I could remember by whom but if I ever knew I forgot a long time ago). It used to hang in our living room (over this exact couch, actually, which I also inherited). I'm not sure yet where to put it. There's an ideal spot in the foyer but it's awkward to reach as it's over the stairs so hanging it may prove to be a problem (that's also why painting the foyer is an issue).

For some reason Greeks really seem to love stitching these "olde" English/French countryside/village-type scenes. I even made one for my mom but it's in Greece now so it'll be a while before I can photograph it!


It seems like ages since I've worked on a half-stitch project. I've been doing some cross-stitch lately, as well as working on other crafts. As soon as I'm finished my current cross-stitch piece I'm breaking out one of my waiting kedima patterns (yes, I have a minor stockpile). There's something really comfortable--and comforting--about carrying on traditions.

Note: I finally found out that this kind of needlepoint is called Tapestry Embroidery in English

Photos by Whimsy Bower

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03 January 2012

On a Silver Platter

 

I believe in an afterlife. I also believe my parents are there together and that they watch over me, including this past Christmas.

The SO and I were over at my sister's place on the 24th. It was a low-key day in light of losing our mom this past March, but we wanted to see each other for the holiday. She and I had been talking a couple of days beforehand about some of the boxes still sitting in her basement from our parents' move (in 1999 they sold their house and started splitting their time between my sister's place and Greece). My sister thought there were only bar glasses in the boxes and when I mentioned it to the SO he thought we could use them if my sister didn't want them (the fact that they're still in boxes after all this time is a pretty good sign that she doesn't). So while we were there on the 24th I decided I'd take home a couple of framed needlepoints my mom had told me she wanted me to have, as well as a box of the bar glasses.

My sister chose the particular box she did because my dad had written on it and she felt sentimental seeing his handwriting. When we checked to see what was inside we were completely surprised. Instead of barware the box was full of gorgeous trays and platters! Not having seen them in so long I'd assumed they were either in Greece or mixed in with my sister's stuff.

Since sis didn't need any more serving ware (there are benefits to getting married) she kindly let me have the entire box. Now, you have to understand how much I love this stuff. I inherited my mom's taste and over the years she's given me all kinds of household items (either new or her old pieces) and I cherish all of it (especially the old pieces). I thought I already had everything I'd be getting. So to find and receive all these lovely items out of nowhere... it definitely feels like my parents sent me a Christmas gift. I guess I'll have to entertain more often now so I can put everything to good use (or else just start making more things that can be served on platters)...

It was perfect timing to get the turkey platter, as the SO and I were making a turkey dinner on the 25th:


 

I've fallen in love with this piece--it's a silver Lazy Susan tray with a covered divided glass-and-silver dish that sits in the middle of it. I didn't have anything like this before and I can't wait to use it:

 

I also love this tray. I think it would be perfect for cupcakes!

 

From top left to right: silver footed tray; turkey platter; cut crystal platter; etched glass platter; silver and glass Lazy Susan; glass platter with beaded edging. There was also a smaller oval stoneware platter that had seen better days so I'm using that as the dish under one of my plants. The rope of beads is actually an oversized string of worry beads that my cousin picked up for me in Thessaloniki (I believe they're supposed to bring good fortune to the house). My mom also made the crushed velvet tablecloth for me after I saw a photo of a similar one in Betsey Johnson's house and thought it was the awesomest tablecloth ever (I'm still pretty damn fond of it). It's amazing how much of my mom is in this house, whether directly or otherwise. No matter what I know my parents will always be with me.

 

And a gratuitous shot of my Yule tree because I finally managed to get a nice photo of it :)

Photos by Whimsy Bower 

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20 March 2009

Got the Blues

The process of settling into this house since the move has been slow. There are still pictures that haven't been hung, a couple of boxes (hiding out in the garage) that haven't been unpacked, and--most frustrating to me--rooms that haven't been painted. 

It's not that they strictly need it; most of the house was freshly painted when we bought it. It's just...I'm really not a fan of neutrals. Sure, they serve a purpose and are fine in limited amounts, but they're so very dull. I can't respect a colour that refuses to take a stand. Besides, I live in a country where it's neutral (brown, white, grey) outside for five months of the year. I like a little life in my home, thanks. 

The good news is we're slowly getting around to amending the paint situation. The main floor is now done (other than the foyer, but we're going to need to hire someone for that). The kitchen was already a terracotta colour, which only needed some touching up. At first I didn't love the colour but it's since grown on me. The living room/library we immediately painted red because, well, that room was just meant to be red. 

The last room we got around to was the dining room. Choosing the colour there was trickier. It needed to be something warm for the north-facing room, and it also needed to go well with the other colours as the dining room is visible from all the other rooms. We considered green, "spice colours," and (briefly) orange. Ultimately we went with blue because it goes well with everything in that room, it looks good with the other rooms, and we like it. It took us a while to settle on a shade. For a long time I wanted something more subdued, darker, and with greyer undertones. Eventually I realized the SO (who's got a great colour sense for someone who wears black 99% of the time!) was right that my preference would be too dark and cold. 

We went with something brighter than I'd normally choose, but which is warm and looks great in the room. We finally set aside a weekend last month and got the room painted. The only real problem we had was with the painter's tape. It stuck and tore, not only making it difficult to remove, but in some places taking the paint off the crown moulding with it (turns out the mouldings were previously painted olive green. Not attractive). Luckily we had paint on hand that matched the mouldings, so covering the green patches wasn't an issue. I meant to take 'before' shots, as well as 'process' shots. Meant to, forgot, and then got busy. Hope the 'after' shots will do! 

The metal piece behind the piano is actually our old headboard. One of the potential problems with old houses is that they were built for much smaller furniture than is common today (we didn't realize how massive contemporary furniture is until we went shopping--especially if you want anything traditional in design. Kind of ironic). Unfortunately, our bed and boxspring were about an inch too big to fit up the stairs. A moment of panic almost had me turning the living room into our bedroom, but then we decided it was time to get some new bedroom furniture anyway (fortunately boxsprings now come in two pieces for just this sort of scenario). The old bed is handmade wrought-iron--we definitely weren't about to get rid of it. So it is now in place as an "architectural" piece in the dining room (the footboard serves the same function in the pantry). Creative recycling! We were just lucky we had a place to put it.\

  

This picture illustrates my point about neutrals being useful in limited amounts. Before we painted, we realized the print on this wall (Printemps/Spring by LaFarge; the original took my breath away when I saw it at the Philadelphia Museum of Art years ago) would disappear against the blue paint, so we decided to paint this wall beige. The colour is almost the same as the original colour of the room (unfortunately we still had to paint the wall because it was full of nail holes). If you stand in the middle of the room and look across to the living room/library, the wall directly opposite is also beige. That was the original colour in that room as well and we decided to leave it (a) as a slight break from all the red and (b) because we didn't feel like painting behind the radiator/in the window bay.

 Lots of little details came together so nicely in this room. The fleur de lys bowl on the table echoes the fleur de lys finials on the bedpost/architectural piece. The leaded glass of the window matches the design on the hutch (sorry--I didn't get a great photo of the hutch). There was just enough space next to the French doors to place bookcases (they hold cookbooks and herb books) so that the doors could still fully open. The cabinet under the window is actually an antique Singer sewing machine (the machine retracts into the cabinet). My great aunt in Greece inherited the machine. She didn't have a use for it but apparently she immediately thought of me (I guess I have a reputation for liking old stuff!), and had it shipped as soon as we moved. It's a really cool piece that definitely deserves a post of its own. 

This house has great doors. These ones are (we think) gumwood with leaded glass and a cut-crystal doorknob. The SO is convinced the doors aren't original because the hardware around the knob has an old-fasioned keyhole, but there's no hole behind it for a key to go into. He might be right, but all the doorknobs and hardware are identical through the house, and the doors are period-appropriate (there's also a matching single door in the next room). This is one of those times I really wish we had photos of the house from its early days. In any case, you can see a glimpse of the red walls in the living room/library. 

The leaded window with a view of the hedge beyond. The stained glass window hanging in front is a reproduction of the (much larger) "Wisteria" window Louis Comfort Tiffany made for his own dining room. This one was a gift from the SO and came from a store I loved, but which has since gone under.

  You can't see it too well in this photo, but the thing I think I'm proudest of about the paint job in this room is that we got behind the radiator! And without getting any on the baseboards, either. Since then I've been noticing that other rads in the house are a lot closer to the wall than the one in the dining room. How did anyone manage to paint behind them? Are they removable? I guess we'll figure that out later. 

The light fixture in this room was another of those serendipitous details. When we bought the place there was just a hole in the ceiling with wiring sticking out. As soon as we had a chance we went hunting for a light. We'd decided ahead of time that we wanted a stained-glass fixture. The store had a good selection, and although I liked this one it wasn't my favourite. For once, though, I put some thought into it and decided this one would suit the room the best. As soon as we had it installed, we knew it was the right choice (even the electrician said it was perfect!) The design and colours work with the room and our furniture perfectly. That was when I finally learned to decorate for the house, not necessarily for one's own preferences. I love girly crystal chandeliers but they would look so wrong here (as would the predominantly red dragonfly design I really loved at the store). 

Funny enough (and something we didn't realize until we got it home) this light also matches our cats, right down to the grey-blue of their eyes. All it needs is a bit of pink to match their noses. If you can't decorate for the house, you can always decorate for your pets!

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